RAAAH

The Breastasaurus attacked me 5 times today. I haven't seen her in like 2 weeks. She always seems to have a swirl of drama around her life. This especially occurs when she leaves for vacation somewhere. The dork leaves the DC area and suddenly everything goes haywire. I told her she can't leave anymore. I talked to her on the phone and she had her dose of "Puzzler making everything better" but she really can't leave anymore.

That's what I'm talking about when I talk about America!

Not Being Boring and Going For It.

I feel like if a girl asks the question, "What is the most exciting thing you do?," I find that this is her communicating to you that she wants to be more stimulated now this can be either physical or emotional which:

If it is
emotional: means you are being boring in some capacity and she is trying to see if she can A) talk about something not boring and B) see if you really are a boring person

If it is
physical: She is bored by this continued non sexual stimulation and wants to increase the physical stimulation and turn the situation sexual herself.

These can go hand and hand. It could be both...that she is bored by your non sexual stimulation as well as bored by what you have been doing up to that point.

You want to evaluate what you have been doing up to that point. This could be observational or physical. Have you been exciting her with fun stuff, boring her completely or have you been having fun but without that tinge of sexuality, spontaneousness, charisma and adventurousness?

This is also relative to the date you went on as well. For example, if you decided to go for dinner instead of skydiving, how do you prevent the date from staling out and not being stimulating. Talking about adventurous, cool, charismatic stories is always good but it is harder to keep this up when you are in a situation without other stimulation around you.

The date you choose says a lot about you as well. Whether you are boring or adventurous, etc. Girls will feel the emotion from the date and blame you for the feeling.

I recommend going on dates that are INTERESTING, fun and stimulating.
Comedy Club
Aquarium
Karoake
Dave and Busters
Interactive Museums
Shopping Mall
Smores at Cosi

I'm all over craigslist and other event websites as well. Depending on the size of your city, there is stuff going on all the time that is different, stimulating and cool.

These ideas make it easier to have fun and not be boring. The second part of this comes in your stories and what you actually say on the dates, is it emotionally stimulating, is it job talk, are you being charimatic or are you talking in monotone about your shoes being tied. These are things you have to keep in mind. The third component is the sexually pulling the trigger.

I feel like a lot of guys do not pull the trigger when they have the option to do so. I recommend going sexual in a tasteful way. One of girls biggest gripes is that they do not understand the intention of the guy. Sometimes waiting too long to announce your intentions might mean that she has already come to the conclusion that you are not interested in her in that way and when you finally do it becomes weird and awkward. Sometimes not going for it will eventually bore her and she will lose interest as well as feel like connection between the two of you is stale.

By calling a girl, "sexy" you are making your intentions clear. You can say it about a personality trait etc...something about her that really turns you on. This goes hand and hand with not being boring. A little bit of sexuality, makes things just a little more interesting.